> I have it too but never reached orgasm. Not even close, can't feel a built up. Just nothing. How are you doing it, I'm trying to figure out what I'm doing wrong.
Ok, so here's what works for me:
* DON'T FAP PRIOR TO TRYING TO REACH SISSYGASM. You have to be horny. In fact, probably try to avoid fapping for at least a few days prior to attempting the sissygasm.
* DON'T TRY TO RUSH, and don't get frustrated that nothing is happening. I know this is difficult when you are just so eager to experience this wonderful thing people write about, but for me it is just completely impossible to get anywhere if I try to rush it - it's not like fapping where you can just get off in like 30 seconds if you are horny enough. In fact, the first time I managed to get a sissygasm I had basically accepted that it was impossible (I had tried many times before without success), and so I was content with just playing around with my prostate massager without any real expectations or frustrations... and then, after a some time, suddenly I felt it starting to build. I panicked and the moment was lost, but I was able to recapture it by getting back into the relaxed, undemanding and sexy mindset, and after rebuilding for a while it hit me. And you will know when it hits.
* DON'T WATCH PORN, don't listen to music. Just relax, feel the sensations and enjoy yourself in silence.
* FOCUS ON RHYTHMIC BREATHING. Sync your breath to the prostate contractions, in whatever way feels most natural and relaxing. One breath might equate one or two or three contractions. Also, don't be afraid to moan. At least for me, moaning really does helps (but only do it if you like it - again, relaxing and being comfortable is KEY). I don't know why the moaning works, though I've heard others say the same, it's probably a mental thing.
* POSITIONING - I think this is the most difficult one to recommend, as what works seems to be different for everyone. The Aneros guide recommends lying on your side, but this doesn't work for me at all. The first time I sissygasmed I was sitting in my bed on my knees (cowgirl style, imagining I was riding a big sexy cock). Since then I have done it while sitting in a squatting fetal position, while standing slightly bent over and while on all fours, doggystyle. I have not had success while lying on my stomach or in a missionary position yet (but I probably will eventually).
I am so happy I learned how to do it, and I hope this can help some of you strugling girls out there along. :) Don't give up hope, it's so worth it...