I've been here since before the move from FapChan to NewFapChan. Started transitioning in 2011 and life is good. For a long time I had an inner conflict and thought being into forced fem meant I couldn't really be trans. At this point I have enough self-confidence to say that even if I had been borne a cis woman, I would still probably be tomboyish in my everyday expression, and would still have a rock-hard ladyboner for forced fem.
I've been fulltime for years at this point and it still feels surreal sometimes. There are days where I get through the whole day without once thinking about being trans. People treat me like any other girl and that's all I wanted when I gambled on transitioning. There are awkward moments, like when someone asks me what I'd do if I got knocked up (lel you don't have a clue, bud) or getting really, uncomfortably aroused when people are casually sexist toward me.
All in all, stop beating yourself up. Whether you're a crossdresser or sissy or trans girl or FtM or whatever, there's enough people in the world who are gonna try to shit on you. There's no use rubbing shit on yourself, too. Accept who you are and deal with the consequences of accepting it, and you will probably be happier.